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David Did It! The 5 Biggest Lies Candidates Tell Recruiters (And Why We Usually Know)

The 5 Biggest Lies Candidates Tell Recruiters

Let’s get one thing straight before we start.

Candidates are generally good people.

Most aren’t trying to deceive anyone. Most are trying to improve their lives, secure a better opportunity, or escape a frustrating situation.

But after more than a decade in various areas of recruitment, I’ve learned something important:

Candidates lie to recruiters for the exact same reason clients sometimes do.

Usually, they’re worried the truth will hurt their chances.

The irony?

The lie usually causes far more damage than the truth ever would.

Here are the five biggest lies recruiters hear every week and why honesty is almost always the better strategy.

1. “I’m Not Actively Looking” – The Classic Recruitment Myth

This is recruitment’s equivalent of:

“I’m just browsing.”

Meanwhile, the candidate has applied for 27 jobs, updated their CV three times this week and turned on LinkedIn’s “Open to Work” feature.

Look, there is absolutely nothing wrong with actively looking.

I expect people to look.

In fact, if you’re unhappy or underpaid, I’d encourage you to explore the market.

The issue isn’t job searching.

The issue is pretending you’re not.

When candidates aren’t honest about their activity levels, they often create unnecessary delays because we’re working with incomplete information.

A recruiter can manage competing processes.

A recruiter cannot manage processes they don’t know about.

David Did It Advice:

If you’re interviewing elsewhere, just say so.

Good recruiters will appreciate the transparency and help manage timelines accordingly.

2. “Salary Isn’t My Main Motivation” – Until the Offer Arrives

This one is technically true.

Until the offer arrives.

I regularly hear:

“I’m looking for culture, progression and flexibility.”

Then an offer arrives exactly where they said they wanted to be, and suddenly another £5,000 appears from nowhere.

Funny how that happens.

Here’s the reality:

Salary usually isn’t the only motivation.

But it’s almost always part of the decision.

And that’s perfectly okay.

The problem comes when candidates downplay compensation during the process and then reveal a much higher expectation at offer stage.

That’s not protecting yourself.

That’s creating avoidable frustration for everyone involved.

David Did It Advice:

Be honest about your target salary from day one.

Nobody wins when expectations are hidden.

If you’re unsure where your salary expectations sit in the current market, check out our latest Salary Guides.

3. “I’ve Done That Before” – Have You Really?

This is particularly common during interviews.

A candidate sees a requirement and thinks:

“I can probably figure that out.”

Which is fair.

Most of us can learn new skills.

The danger comes when “I can learn it” becomes:

“I’ve already done it.”

Recruiters and hiring managers are trained to dig deeper.

Eventually, somebody asks:

“Tell me about a time you completed that task.”

And that’s where things start to unravel.

You don’t need to be perfect to get hired.

Most employers are hiring potential as much as experience. The reality is if you can do the role 100% you’re likely over qualified for the role and need your next opportunity to be a progression move. Otherwise the client hires and if they can’t promote in 6-12 months you’re back on the market.

What they don’t want is uncertainty about whether they can trust what they’re hearing.

David Did It Advice:

Don’t exaggerate experience.

If you’ve supported something, say you’ve supported it.

If you’ve observed it, say you’ve observed it.

Potential gets opportunities.

False expertise gets found out.

4. “My Current Job Is Fine” – Apparently Not

This is usually said moments before somebody spends twenty minutes explaining why they’re miserable. Guuuurl please!

I’ve lost count of how many conversations start with:

“Everything’s okay really.”

Then I hear:

No progression
Poor leadership
Unrealistic targets
Endless workload
No flexibility
Salary concerns

Again, there is nothing wrong with feeling frustrated.

Every professional reaches a point where they question whether their current role is still right for them.

The useful conversations start when we’re honest about what’s driving the move. Consider the push and pull factors. We regularly discuss these push and pull factors in our Market Insights section.

If I understand the actual problem, I can help identify opportunities that genuinely solve it.

If I don’t understand the problem, we’re both guessing.

David Did It Advice:

Be brutally honest about why you’re moving.

Not because recruiters are nosy (although we are)

Because the reason you’re leaving will often determine whether your next move succeeds.

5. “I’ll Definitely Accept If They Offer”

This might be the most dangerous lie of all.

Usually because the candidate genuinely believes it at the time.

Then reality arrives.

A counteroffer appears.

Doubts creep in.

Another interview appears unexpectedly.

Friends start offering advice.

The commute suddenly seems longer.

The hybrid policy suddenly feels less attractive.

Everything changes.

Accepting a job offer and actually joining are two very different decisions.

That’s why experienced recruiters continue asking questions after an offer has been accepted.

David Did It Advice:

If you have concerns, raise them.

If you’re uncertain, say so.

A difficult conversation today is far easier than pulling out the day before your start date.

The Truth?

The best candidates aren’t the ones who never have concerns.- They’re the ones who communicate them.

Good recruiters aren’t looking for perfection. – We’re looking for honesty.

If you’re actively interviewing, tell us.

If salary matters, tell us.

If you’re uncertain, tell us.

If you hate your current role, definitely tell us.

The truth usually gives us something to work with.

The lie usually gives us a problem to uncover later.

And trust me, we always uncover it eventually.

David Did It!

The recruitment industry doesn’t need more scripts, buzzwords or corporate waffle.

It needs better conversations.

And those conversations start when candidates, recruiters and employers stop trying to tell each other what they think they want to hear and start telling each other what’s actually true.

Because the best placements I’ve ever made didn’t start with perfect candidates.

They started with honest ones.

Whether you’re actively looking, quietly browsing, or simply wondering what the market looks like right now, we’re always happy to have a confidential conversation.

No pressure.

No sales pitch.

Just honest advice.

For more information on our Candidate Journey read here

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Next week stay tuned for The 5 Biggest Lies Recruiters Tell Candidates